Okay,I`m having issues with people trying to tell me who I am,and I`m going to give you this bit of advice:
"Don`t EVER let people down because they can`t tell them who you are,but you can tell them.You are who you are and you can`t change that."
Try to roll it off your back like it`s not a big deal,cause then people know they won`t get to you.